Achieving a Female Orgasm
In this article, we will discuss, how a woman Achieving a Female Orgasm. Probably the most common sexual problem seen in women is that of difficulty in reaching orgasm (Climax).
There are two main groups: the first group consists of women who have never achieved orgasm, while the second group is women who have had orgasms but only in special circumstances.
Just because a woman is unable to reach a climax does not mean that she is frigid. She may well have a strong sex drive and be capable of falling in love.
If a woman often fails to reach a climax, she is likely to become disappointed and eventually may lose interest in sex altogether.
A woman may find difficulty in reaching a climax if she is uncertain about her commitment toward her partner, or if she is frightened of losing control.
If a woman has never reached a climax, this may just be due to the fact she has not had sufficient sexual stimulation for orgasm to take place.
If she has had a lot of stimulation and she is still unable to reach a climax, either during sexual intercourse or by stimulation of the clitoris, then this is a problem that needs attention.
It is easier for a woman
It has been found that it is easier for a woman to reach a climax on her own than when her partner is present. So to begin with, having ensured that she is alone and will not be disturbed, she should stimulate her clitoris with masturbation.
She may well feel that it is wrong to reach an orgasm this way, but it is I that the woman should reach her first climax by whatever means possible.
As soon as she is highly aroused she should contract her stomach muscles, which will help her reach a climax.
Achieving orgasm She should continue with these masturbation sessions until she is able to achieve an orgasm fairly easily.
At this stage, sexual intercourse may take place, but the woman should on no account make any attempt to achieve orgasm while the penis is in the vagina.
Once the man has ejaculated, he should stimulate her clitoris so that, in her own time, she too can reach orgasm.
She should concentrate only on her own sexual sensations.
There are many women who can reach orgasm by direct stimulation of the clitoris but, in spite of finding sexual intercourse an enjoyable experience, are yet unable to reach a climax with the penis in the vagina.
When there is a problem of this type, the couple should enjoy some foreplay until the woman is aroused, and at this point, the man inserts his penis into the vagina and starts thrusting slowly.
Then he withdraws the penis, and after a few minutes, he penetrates the vagina again. If the woman is still unable to achieve orgasm by this method, then the man should stimulate his partner’s clitoris with his finger between one insertion and the next.
Again the man should wait until the woman is intensely aroused before penetrating again. As she comes closer to orgasm, she quickens her thrusting movements to help her reach climax. Self-stimulation If all these measures fail, then the woman should stimulate her own clitoris during sexual intercourse.
She stops stimulating herself as she nears orgasm and finishes off by thrusting. Provided that care is taken in following these instructions, there is every likelihood that there will be a successful outcome.
In a small number of cases where this is not sufficient, it is recommended that the couple consult an experienced therapist after a discussion with their general practitioner.
It is a tremendously rewarding experience for a woman to reach a climax with the penis inside her vagina. This may well lead to a great improvement in the couple’s relationship.
